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Tue, 23 May 2006
Letter to parents

Dear Friends, Colleagues and Family,
Our son Benjamin is a miracle boy! He survived a severe dog attack and we are so happy to say that he is now doing great! His scars have healed miraculously and he is the happy and humorous boy he always was.

In light of Dog Bite Prevention Week, I would like to share Ben’s story in hopes to save a child’s beautiful face from permanent scars and a horrible trauma or even save a child’s life.
Please read my letter and share it with friends who have young children or dogs.
On October of 2003, our son Benjamin survived a tragic dog attack.
He was bitten severely by a supposedly friendly neighborhood dog (Lab - Pit Bull).
The mistake the owner made was that they tied their dog to a white picket fence and thought it was ok to leave Ben alone with the dog. The owner told Ben and Ben’s dad that the dog was a good dog and that it was ok for Ben to pet him. Ben’s attack was totally unprovoked. The Lab - Pit Bull does not growl or show signs that it will bite so poor Ben had no idea that this dog was going to attack him. The dog leaped into Ben’s face, locked his jaws around both his cheeks and shook him violently. Fortunately, Ben’s dad and the dog owner were just inside the open door of the house and were able to stop the dog.
The bite was only 2 inches from Ben’s jugular vein. Ben had to have plastic surgery with over three hundred stitches (17 inches) causing permanent facial scars and paralysis. Unfortunately Ben’s case was one of the worst but Ben was lucky to survive. Ben lived to tell his story in full detail even the moment just before the dog leaped into his face. He said the dog looked at him and then looked over to the open door where he could hear his owner speaking. He said he did this several times and then suddenly latched onto his face and pulled him down shaking him.
After almost 3 years now, Ben is doing great and has totally overcome his tragedy mentally.
In fact Ben and his brother Austin have their very own dog, a Cockapoo, that they both love and adore.
Yeah Ben!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ben is a miracle boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you would like to see how fragile a child’s face is and how powerful a dogs teeth are you can see what happened to Ben’s face within a matter of seconds. These images are shocking but very eye opening.
My hope is that maybe sharing these photos will help make us all more careful.
Here is the link: www.dogbites.zoomshare.com Click on See Images and View Album.
Why did this dog attack Ben? After doing plenty of research I now understand why.
This dog had no history of aggressive behavior. He never bit anyone before and so the owner had no idea that his dog would do such a thing. What the owner did not realize is that he put his dog in a situation where the dog was left feeling afraid. He tied his dog to a fence and left him alone with someone the dog did not know. A child can scare a dog simply because of their height.
Many dogs can perceive a child as just another animal - not an authority figure - and because of a child’s short height, a dog and a child meet eye to eye which to a dog can mean that you are challenging him. Also if a child smiles at a dog, the dog can perceive the site of a child’s teeth as a threat. This dog attacked Ben because he was afraid and felt trapped being tied up and unable to get away. Unfortunately the Lab - Pit Bull did not give Ben any warning signs.
Other breeds may show warning signs that would allow a child to know to move away. I believe that this lesson is the most important in dog safety rules – Never leave a dog alone with a child and teach children to never go near a dog they do not know well, especially when the dog is tethered. Many dog owners will tether their dogs in front of a store leaving the dogs alone while they do their errands. This is something that dog owners should avoid.
Children are passionate about dogs and most are not educated to know that they should not approach a strange dog.
You wouldn’t have known it was Dog Bite Prevention Week unless maybe you stopped by the post office like my sister-in-law Kate.
Kate is a school teacher and I was hoping that she might have learned about Dog Bite Prevention Week at school.
But despite the fact that more than half of the seriously injured dog bite victims are children, schools do not teach dog safety.
It is up to parents to teach our children what they can do and must not do around dogs. Children should know how to read the danger signs from a dog
or what situations must always be avoided, like going into a neighbor’s backyard where there is a loose dog or dogs.

Statistics say that every year, dogs bite 4.7 million Americans and 60 percent of those affected are children, with the most severe injuries occurring in children younger than 10 years old (Ben was 9), which adds up to potentially 2.8 million scars on children each year from dog bites alone.
Children seen in the emergency room for dog bites are more likely to have been bitten on the face, neck and head. In fact, children under 10 receive 65 percent of the reported dog bites to the face. Children are also 900 times as likely as letter carriers to be attacked by dogs.

Through Ben’s horrible tragedy and mine, I want to help teach children and parents the importance of dog safety.
Because there are not many educational materials available to parents, I created an educational website with a story book that make the lessons FUN and not scary for children. I want children to learn to “GET DOG SMART” so that they can be more cautious, feeling confident and safe around dogs. It’s up to parents to take on the responsibility to teach their children dog safety just as they teach their children to stay away from strangers.
I would like to invite parents and children to this new educational website - www.GetDogSmart.com
The site includes a full color story book inspired by Ben’s story, told by Diggity the Dog. In this story, Diggity takes the kids on a walk through the neighborhood. Along the way, they encounter a whole lot of dogs in different situations.
Diggity tells them the "do's" and "don'ts" -- right from the doggie's mouth. The story can be read on-line or can be printed.
There are also tips for dog owners and FUN educational games children will love. Diggity’s story is also available as a FREE coloring book included with Diggity the Dog’s Puppet Show Book which is available at www.PuppetShowBooks.com .
This book makes a great children’s gift and is also a great reward for a child who has successfully learned all the rules about dog safety.

Make Dog Bite Prevention Week a time to educate yourself and your children and make the lessons fun, easy and memorable!
Especially since dog bites increase during the summer months while children are playing more outdoors.
Many adults need to learn dog safety tips too. Did you know that you should never run from a dog?
Many people don’t. You should stand still like a tree and do not look into the dogs eyes.

Also, if you are a dog owner the website www.GetDogSmart.com includes tips for you too. It is important for dog owners to educate themselves so that when children visit their homes, they are prepared. The typical response of a dog owner whose dog did bite is “I didn’t think my dog would ever do that.” Dogs are animals and in the wrong situation they all bite.
Dogs can also easily get spooked around children, so it’s worth spending the time to learn the facts and take precautions.

Be safe and have a fun summer!

Thanks for taking the time to read this letter.
Please share this message to help save a child from this trauma.

My best wishes to all,
Lisa LeLeu
Posted 12:39

11 comments


Thank you for your letter
I would like to thank you for your info on this subject. Schools are educating children about Fire, Drug and S e x but not about our Dogs...
Posted by Frederic


Dog Safety in Central Bucks Schools!
Central Bucks School District would be wise to host Diggety, Ben and Lisa in presenting their Dog Safety tips! Thank you Lisa.


Thank you
Lisa, Thank you for sharing your story. While reading your story, my heart broke. After seeing the pictures of Ben I was completely shocked. I am so happy for you and your family that all has ended well. I appreicate your courage to share your story. I have an 10 year old and will definitely use your information to educate her.
Posted by Maria Hagin


dog body language
I'm afraid the comment "The Lab-Pit Bull does not growl or show signs that it is about to bite" is a very uneducated and misinformed one. It is extremely difficult for children to properly interpret dog body language. It is far more likely that the child simply did not understand what the dog was trying to get across. "Lab-pit bull" mixes are not a breed, so no trait breeds true in them. Further, studies published in Genetics and Molecular Biology show that behavior in dogs varies more between individuals than between breeds. Assigning a behavioral trait to a dog because of its appearance is like throwing darts blindfolded. You aren't likely to hit the truth.


response to karen
I think the truth is that Ben was bitten by a dog. Educating children and adults is never a bad thing. I think to have a cautious child not approach a strange dog is defintely the lesser evil, rather than be concerned with whether the behavioral trait belongs to certain breed.
Posted by Maureen


Dog safety is a MUST
Thank you for bringing attention to the importance of dog safety. I will say that I do agree with Karen's statement in that the focus should be on dogs and kids and not on a particular breed. The dangers of creating the idea that there are 'safe' breeds out there will only perpetuate the problem. In the past three days, there have been at least four reports of other breeds doing the same level of damage with the same speed as the story described above. Sault Ste Marie, Ontario Canda, Auburn Township, Cleveland and Owensboro, Ky and Brook Mead, Nashville. If we are to teach dog safety, we should really focus on the points that matter, the points that keep our kids safe. The letter above did a fantastic job otherwise at giving some great dog safety tips for kids. I use every one of them with my kids. (incidently, my two dogs are considered 'pit bulls' by the Ontario government) Unfortunately, my friends and family with other breeds, constantly leave their children alone with their dogs. When I suggest that it may be a bad idea to do so, they disagree since they don't have 'pit bulls', they don't have to worry.
Posted by Denise Riou


Be alert!
If you go to http://www.google.com/alerts you can ask google to send you emails regarding "DOG BITES" then you will see that the most breed regarding dog bites are related to pitbul or mix-pitbul.
Posted by Phil Smith


Thank goodness!
Thank you for your story about Ben. It gives me such hope and encouragement to hear that he's recovered so well! I'm so proud of him just from reading this. Sadly, my 6 year old daughter was attacked by a dog on Mother's Day of this year and had to have 100 stitches by a plastic surgeon. Just weeks later though, she is healing just beautifully, even miraculously I'd venture to say! The children's utter bravery and strength in these horrible, violent events is astonishing though. And so humbling as well. I think of my daughter's perfect, princess-esque face before though, and her deep love of dogs in particular, before the incident, and I get a little overwhelmend right now. I know time will work wonders for me, and her. But it's all still so on- the-surface for me, the ordeal. I find myself complelled to recount the event to the many well-meaning questions people ask about what happened. But I get to a certain point, and I can't go on, as I feel I would just break down and not be able to compose myself. Is there advice, Lisa, from you on how you coped, emotionally, in the immediate aftermath of Ben's ordeal? I'd sure appreciate any you could send my way. Grayson Daughters Atlanta
Posted by Grayson


my son was mauled
hello i had to leave a comment because i am going through what you have already went through. my son was mauled by our own dog for no reason that we know of. my son was injured really bad and was lifeflighted to the hosp. he suffered injurys to the head and face. the dog bit off completely a patch of skin and hair to the skull bigger then 6in by 4in, pushed the skull in 1/4 in. bit off his right ear and tip of his nose. he also has 3 large bites to the face and side of head and inside the lower lip and a scratched eye. we are very lucky my son is alive and suffered no brain injurys witch was a good thing the dog was old and had broke off his k9 teeth level to his molors witch kept him from bitting through the skull. im so sorry to hear your son and you also has went through the trama of a dog bite. i guess in a way im reaching out to someone thats been down this road because right now im worried how well he will heal and how bad he will scare and what else i can do to stop any scaring and pain for him. he will need to go through 2 to 3 more surgarys to make him a new ear and he will need surgary in a yr to lighten the scares on his face and he will need surgarys on his nose till about 17 yrs old when he is done growing we just dont know how many it will take yet. anyways reading Bens story we know we are not alone and we are not the only ones going through this or the fact a dog we trusted and never thought would harm anyone did in fact do just that. its a nightmare to see your child go though something like this, a few sec of what a dog can do causes a child yrs of surgary and repair and pain. i would like some how to get the word out to othere parents that no dog should be trusted that they would never bite a child because it only takes once and its yrs of recovery. dogs should not be left with kids no matter what. this is something we learned the hard way. thanks.
Posted by leah


Your letter has already helped me
Dearest Lisa and Ben, Hello, my name is Amanda, and although I am not a dog owner yet, I have been looking for one online and found some pictures of dog bites. Curious of prevetions, training, etc, somehow I stumbled across your website. I must say, the photo's of the bite are very disturbing and I am so sorry your son had to go through such trauma and horrific pain. And you as well, as his mother. I have to say how wonderful it is to hear that he made it through the surgery, and the healing for years now, and I am so happy to hear that he is not scared of dogs. A lot of children that get bitten at an early age tend to be fearful of them the rest of their lives. My husband and I just got stationed in Texas, and I have been bugging him for a small short haired dog for our up-coming anniversary. My brother was bitten in the face a looong time ago, I think I was about 8, by our cousins Dobermin pincher. He was sitting on the couch, and she was laying right next to him with her back against his leg, and loving the petting he was giving her. However, my brother stuck his face in hers to give her a kiss and she growled then quickly bit him on the nose. It wasn't a deep wound, and he only had 2 butterfly stitches, but he still has a scar from it. My husbands 6 year old daughter from a previous marriage visits us occasionaly and I'm positve thats why i read your story. I love children, a few that I fell in love with after babysitting them for years and still contact them. I would not want anythng to happen to any child, caused by my animal, so I want to thank you for your story. I have seen by your photo's, what could happen so quickly and unpredicted and I thank you for already helping me, before my purchase of a dog. Also, I have a baby ferret, and she bites a lot. She's already bitten me deep enough to draw blood and a lot of my friends are afraid of her. I'm trying to explain to my husband that when he puts his hand over her face and plays with her, where she bites his hands (his fingers are callased from playing guitar, and he says it doesn't hurt so he figures its ok) i've told him that it's teaching her that it's ok to bite humans. I've been working with her, just bying showing her love, and saying no in sweet cooing voice, and petting her like you would a cat or dog. So far it seems to be working. So again I want to thank you. I am going to go look up information on how to train the animal i already have, how not to bite. Best wishes to you and your family. P.S. Great name! My mother-in-laws name is Lisa! My best regards, Amanda Animal Lover
Posted by Amanda B.


Dog Attack
I am a nursing student that happened to be doing a clinical rotation today in the PICU. There was a 4 year old boy who my instructor wanted me to observe a procedure being done on, I did not realize at the time that this child had been bitten by 3 rottweilers. When I walked into the room they were doing a bandage change and I observed the worst dog attack I have ever laid my eyes on. The little 4 year old boy had lacerations to the back of his scalp, neck and face, his ear was completely gone. I remember looking at his neck every time his heart would beat and see his carotid artery move. The parents stated that they were inside asleep and the boy had got up early one morning and went outside where his grandfathers dogs were and was vicously attacked. In this case I completely blame the parents however not for me to judge as I was just there to observe such a heinous attack and the trauma that presented itself in this situation. I wanted to tell you that I am glad that your son has recovered from his attack both mentally and physically and wish that they were more stipulations on pitbulls and rottweilers and any other agressive dog in this class. Thank you for allowing me share my experience of what I observed and wish the best for your family. God Bless
Posted by Natasha


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